Genealogical Gynecological Fun for Girls and Boys
Ok, so I just read something that as an amateur genealogist really found shocking and something I never thought of before.
The article was titled: Two Moms to Be on Baby's Birth Certificate after N.J. Gay Rights Ruling
Future generations stemming from this kid is obviously going to hit a 2006 road block in searching their ancestory, in the event that this kid ever decides to do this, but then I was further shocked to read this...
Under state law, the husband of a woman who gives birth through artificial insemination is listed on the birth certificate as the father.
ARGH...
So how long has this been going on? Can future genealogical records be preserved or will family trees become a more spider web shape?
Will it be best to trace back through your new family?
I just never considered the huge amount of family tracing problems that can occur because of adoptions, inseminations, surrogates and the new family combinations of the 20th and now 21st centuries.
How do people trace back now from adoptions?
We carry traits of our ancestors though our DNA. It is the reason we look the way we do and why some of us are prone to diseases or sickness in one way or another. Is it not important to have a complete or as near to complete, heriditary line?
What do you say when the doctor asks you if your grandparents or parents had diabetes, heart disease or cancer?
Update: Please keep in mind my post is not a negative attitude to these kids or the families they are born into, more a curiousity from a genealogical perspective.
Comments
About genealogies, is this really new to the 20th and 21st century? I'm thinking it's got to be worse farther back. How many mistresses, hidden children, etc are there, from the US to Europe and back again? Thinking of just Thomas Jefferson and all the potential offspring with slaves. The DNA evidence now isn't strong enough to prove paternity (but it did show a link), but the national genealogical society if I remember said the link between him and her was validified. I'd imagine records were hard to keep straight and maybe the "idealized" version worldwide, especially in such cases.
I've always been into the sciences, and I think genealogy might be kind of interesting - I never really thought of it outside of a genetics class. But I remember even in middle school I thought they got ridiculously messy and complex :P
Thinking about it now, between the Danes interbreeding with the Irish prior to 1014 AD, and just like you said, the mistresses and hidden children... just things I never considered until I saw this article.
Oh, and you forgot children of single parents, too. Personally, I don't know a lot of my hereditary risk factors, because I don't know anything about my father's side of the family (or my father, for that matter), so I just tell the doctor the things I do know. And it's not like children of single parents are anything new. In so many of the current discussions around parenting (whether it's in regard to same-sex marriage or geneology), those of us who were raised with only one parent are often left out of the discussion entirely, and that's just plain weird.
I am sure there are others I am not considering too. It is something that just hit me this morning and I did not think about it much before hand and it left me with this "Whoa" thought.
I know some people really enjoy genealogy and while the problems I have in my research (Dublin Records House Fire Destroying Most Birth and Death Records), I can imagine for some other folks it really must be difficult on both a research level and an emotional one if they decide to research their roots if they have 1 parent or no parents or have some other combination of a family.
Primary among the reasons mothers to be choose to become impregnated by a known donor who remains part of the family is a reluctance to raise children in the shadow of anonymous heritage. As one donor dad, an East Coast lawyer named Guy, told me, his lesbian co-parents “felt like it was important for their kids to know as much as they could about their story. When there’s an anonymous donor, it’s not always an ideal situation for the child.”